Feminism’s latest triumph: Boys are afraid of girls

April 13, 2012
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James Taranto explains:

“American boys often said sex could end their life as they knew it. After a condom broke, one worried: ‘I could be screwed for the rest of my life.’ Another boy said he did not want to have sex yet for fear of becoming a father before his time.”

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Schalet’s most interesting assertion is that “the American boys I interviewed seemed more nervous about the consequences of sex than American girls.”

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Given that nature imposes the physical burden of pregnancy on the female of the species, that sounds counterintuitive. And it’s possible that some of the boys in the survey, mindful of what Schalet quotes another sociologist as calling “the stigma of virginity,” are rationalizing away their lack of success with girls by chalking it up to prudence.

At the same time, there is good reason for males (men as well as boys) to be more fearful of sex than females. Contemporary reproductive technology and law place all the burden for unwanted pregnancy on them. Between the pill and abortion, women have complete control over the reproductive process. They can avoid or end any unwanted pregnancy, and the man involved has no say in the matter. In Planned Parenthood v. Casey (1992), the U.S. Supreme Court went so far as to hold that a married woman has the constitutional right to abort her husband’s child without even telling him.

A woman’s “reproductive rights” also include the right to carry a pregnancy to term. The crucial point here is that while the decision belongs entirely to her, in the event that a child is born the law assigns financial responsibility to the male involved. That is what the boy in her study means when he worries about being “screwed for the rest of my life.” Short of sterilization, the only way for a male to be sure of avoiding this fate is to abstain from sex.

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Our surmise is that the “decent single men” are missing because Schalet’s “romantic” boys do not overcome their fear of sex, a fear whose rational basis is no less powerful after the age of majority.

4 Responses to Feminism’s latest triumph: Boys are afraid of girls

  1. invalid10 on April 13, 2012 at 8:08 pm

    “Feminism is the idea that we can make both sexes equal by focusing solely on the issues of one of them.” – Terroja Kincaid

  2. ATTILA on April 14, 2012 at 2:50 am

    Why try to “equalize” that which is inherently diverse?????

  3. Dennis on April 14, 2012 at 5:49 am

    And here I thought diversity was good?

  4. Ping-Kong Kalwarowskyj on May 13, 2012 at 11:58 am

    This is really interesting! I don’t think you’ve taken into account what happens day to day, but still a good post.

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